How to end cycles of suffering in the family?

Perhaps you were born into your family to be an agent of change. To be the person who learns the positive lesson, the one who, instead of perpetuating the mistakes of others, observes what is wrong and transforms it.

If you have difficulty accepting evil in others, it's because you are different, not completely consumed by programming. It's time to look at your story from beyond the character's perspective, leave sadness in the past, and be the conscience that observes what needs to be learned.

A new perspective on pain.

Our ancestors trapped in programming didn't have the opportunity to step outside and observe. They suffered and passed it on for generations. It's a distortion of learning to focus on mistakes and carry them forward. It's like taking a test and, instead of correcting the wrong exercises, choosing to carry those mistakes with you and repeat them as if they were the important thing.

It's not our job to understand why we suffer; what got us here is very complex. We just need to understand that the solution isn't focusing on the suffering, but on what we learned. Accept that our story was like this, that life is a school.

It may not seem fair from our character's perspective, but there is much more to consider than that. Anyone who observes the complete history of this life (past, present, and future) and our previous existences, as well as our motivations as spirits, may find that everything is going well.

But don't think that you necessarily suffered as punishment, or because you were wronged by God. There are thousands of possibilities for this. Sometimes you simply chose to be here to be an example. If you haven't been corrupted by the evil of others and remain a good person, you probably came to teach something. Just keep being good and let God work through you.

Let go of all the weight that isn't yours.

Remove all the garbage they placed on your shoulders and allow this reconnection with your Divine essence. Show your family that the path of good is the best choice.

This isn't about being close to those who have wronged you, it's about not allowing yourself to be corrupted by suffering and evil. Don't perpetuate this story, don't carry other people's pain; it's not yours, don't accept it. You're not someone's dumping ground; let this person learn on their own. It's not your responsibility to elevate others. Life shows the shadows of those who don't want to see them, until one day they decide to return to God on their own.

Forgiveness is understanding that everyone is in a different grade. There's no way a college graduate can expect perfection from someone in the first grade. The age of the soul has nothing to do with our physical age. We who judge now were once in the first grade.

It's also worth remembering that no one is the character; we are all Divine Sparks of God. Remembering this allows you to connect with the divine within others. What we focus on expands. Therefore, part of our role in this life is to focus on the good. In this way, we can stop fostering evil in our families and our world.

Accept your mission and start being happy. That's what God wants from you!

Source: Own article originally taken from my personal blog, Divergente Quântica (language: Portuguese).

👽 WRITTEN BY: Cami Kleemann 🛸 AUTHOR'S LINKS: SPACESHIPS | UNIVERSE