The True Help: Guiding without Carrying.

Being useful means supporting, loving, guiding, but without the illusion that you are responsible for others.

It means knowing how to prune the ego that says: “go there and save”, because when it says that, it is you who needs saving from yourself, from the pain you carry, not from others.

It means washing your wounded soul with alcohol: it hurts, a lot. You might even faint from the pain, but it purifies what needs to be purified.

It is in these moments that we must be strong.

Not holding everything, but letting it go.

Being strong enough to release all burdens.

Accelerating another person's personal development is not about carrying them on your back, not about putting them by your side, but rather, putting them by their side, telling them: “you have legs, walk”, show them the way, and don't be a cart.

You are not a pack donkey that needs to carry all the weight of the world on its shoulders. You are not the world; that is selfishness. You are only you.

Want to help? Guide and care for the other with your words and actions, but without taking from them what is theirs. Without taking from them what will never be theirs: self-accountability.

If the other fails in your eyes, it doesn't mean they failed in their eyes.

If they or you fail in the eyes of society, it doesn't mean you failed in their eyes. You are simply following your path, your gift, which is being you.

Want to help? Then show the others that they have the potential to heal, that they have the potential to ruin their life or turn it into a fairy tale.

Want to help? Start by helping yourself, healing yourself, forgiving yourself. Letting go.

Want to help? See your potential, see your determination, see your light and darkness.

Accept who you are completely...

...Without feeling any trace of guilt for not acting as the other wants.

If, and there will be people like this, others place the burdens of their lives on your shoulders, don't allow yourself to carry them, as this will only make you sick. Do you want to heal others? Teach them to heal and forgive themselves through intimate reform.

Remember, my family: selfishness is taking control of someone else's life and manipulating them to act as you want them to act, rather than as they should act within their individuality.

The other, the other's life, is not your business, but theirs. Just as your life is not their business, but yours alone.

Pain shows, in an alarming way, what can no longer remain within your domain or in your life. Attempts at persecution outside always begin with persecution within. So, forgive yourself, embrace yourself, heal yourself.

Want to help? Empower others, show them that they are capable of healing and reframing their pain.

Your presence is worth more than gold and diamonds, but don't let that be an excuse for not knowing how to leave when you need to. Sometimes, excessive presence and care also steal from others their own ability to heal.

Show those you love your own ability to reframe life, to shape life.

Be the change you want to be, be the difference you want to be.

Walk, and the path — which is you — will appear.

With love and dedication, Micah.

👽 WRITTEN BY: O Caminho Para Dentro 🛸 AUTHOR'S LINKS: SPACESHIPS | UNIVERSE